交友一百式：留学生如何勾搭寄宿家庭小伙伴

　　出国留学我们每个人必要的经历就是来到异国他乡住到当地居民的家中，你们不仅要经历文化冲突，还要学会客服远离家乡的孤独。下面出国留学网就来说说交友一百式：留学生如何勾搭寄宿家庭小伙伴?

　　我是在十年级的下学期转到Plumstead Christian School的所以当时只有一个住能够接待我。这个住家是一个中国和越南结合的家庭而且他们家有两个男孩，一个男孩十五一个男孩五岁。我去之前我并没有做好充分的心理准备接受这样的住家，因为我一直幻想能跟金发碧眼的人住在一起。

　　根据我的经验，住家基本上分成两种，一种是拿你付给他们的钱赚外快的。另一种是他们把你当成自己女儿或者儿子的，所以他们会什么都愿意为你做。我的住家是介于这两种住家之间的。因为我住家都是亚洲人，所以他们有点像典型的中式家庭。我的住家的爸爸是个中国人，他赚的钱非常的多但却非常的节俭。

　　有次我帮忙洗菜把烂的菜叶扔到了垃圾桶里结果他捡出来洗洗又吃了。他对我和他的大儿子非常的严格，但是对他的小儿子十分的溺爱。我住家妈妈是个越南人，她一直想要个女孩所以她接待了我，以为她知道女孩会喜欢帮忙做家务。她非常的和善总喜欢帮我，但是她总是会说不努力就没大学上的话。我住家的大弟弟是个天才，十五岁上大学，但是他沉迷于电脑游戏。住家小弟弟有点顽皮，总喜欢缠着我和他一起玩。在这样的住家最大好处就是我经常能吃到中国的食物，而且也不会有太大的文化差异。

　　虽然我与我的寄宿家庭相处的很好。但在一个期间内我们相处不是很愉快，我慢慢调整了我的做事方式之后才改善了我们的关系。我记得那时候我忙着准备考试,所以每天我并没有时间去跟他们的儿子玩和帮他们做一些家务。

　　我让我住家的妈妈开车送我和我的朋友去考托福,但我忘了申请住家爸爸的同意，让他对我产生了不好的误会。那么我们改如何解决类似的情况呢?美国人非常喜欢互送礼物，所以我常常会送他们一些小礼物来表达我的感激之情。如果有时间的话，我们要多分担一些力所能及的家务。如果寄宿家庭有小孩，那么我们一定要和小孩相处愉快，这也是非常重要得哦!

　　To be international studentsthe most common experience we have to undergo is to live with host familieswhich is absolutelydifferent from livingwith ourown families. Not only wewill have culture shock but also we need toovercome our feeling of lonelinessall the time.

　　As for me, because I transferredto Plumstead Christian School in the middle of the school year. I was accepted by a couple made up of aChinese and a Vietnam.This host family has a five year old anda fifteen year old boy who will attend to collegeinhalfayear. At first I was so not ready to go to a host family like this. Because I used to wish I can go to a host family with blond hairandblue eyes.

　　Later on I found out there are basically two kindsof host family. One kind of families host your because they want the money from you. Another kind is they host you because they want to have culture diversificationand they want youtobe their son or daughter. If youarehostedby this kind of host family you are very lucky because they want to do any thing for you.

　　My host family is between thesetwo kinds of host families. Since they are all Asians,they are like traditional and typical Chinese families. My host dad who come from china is a very wealthy but a frugalman. One time I was washing the lettucefor salad and I threw the rotten vegetables leafinto the trashcan. He pickedup the leaf washed again ate it.

　　He is verystrict to me and his older son but pamperhis little son. My host momis a very nice women she hostsme because she likesdaughter and she knowsgirls are helpful. She always helpsme and teachesme a lot how to get along well with people and how to be the top student in the school. But she is very straight every thing I want to do she will call Nacel and ask whether I can do or not. My older host brother is a genius in study but he maze up because he is crazy aboutvideo game.

　　My little host brother is very naughtybecause his mom and dad are to pamper to him. And he always asksme to play with him. To live with this host family the benefit for me is to eat Chinese food all the time and we barely have any culture shock.

　　Even though I always get along well with my host family.

　　But at one period we did not get along very well and I learned my lesson from the experience.I remember that time I was super busy preparingfor the testsso I barely hadtime to play with their son and help them with some chore. And I askedmy host mum to drive me and my friend to the test center and she wasok with that but I forgot to ask my host dad’s feeling so hethought I took advantage from them.

　　How to deal with this kind of situation? Give them some gifts to show your gratitude because they always like that. Help them do the choreas much asyou can. And make their kids happy if they have little kidsin their families.